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August 2008 
Lets Get Real Already
Posted on Apr 13th, 2007
by 
Stella Luna
Stella Luna
I have little patience for lies, pretense, and magicians...you know-distraction to cover up the trick. I dont play those games-never had never will-partly because I have no ability to hide my emotions on my face, and partly because I refuse to learn how.
So get real, be real, and dont come to me unless you are or are trying to be...
I promise to call you on your shit when you are not being real, and even though you may get mad at me, and stop talking to me, Im willing for that to be a possibility if it lets you know at least one person can see through the BS and wont "just let it slide"....
And I expect the same...though you should know that even if I get mad-I will always come back around (unless I die) and then I wont. I dont stop caring just cause we stop talking...And the silence will only last as long as my pride.
That whole first part sounds a lot harsher than actual execution turns out to be, just to let you know.
And on a completely different tangent-
So heres the thing....there are so many people that I have met and that I read here on Zaadz that are going through what Im going through-HUGE life changes. Transition, if you will. Its encouraging but also surprising to know that situations can be soooooo similar. Things that are written could be about me or to me or from me. Its amazing to think that perhaps life does have a rhythm and that change does happen in larger groves than my own!
and again-to change the subject slightly-on my new name: I chose those letters for a reason, just as I chose those words. Stella Luna-two "Orbs" in opposition existing in Harmony, providing light. Under Transition-very much so, constantly under transition- and as for the acronym...SLUT-they dont exist. It means nothing. And if I can encourage that philosophy, perhaps a little less negativity will plague the world.
Anyway, thats my blurb for the day...nothing poetic, just thoughts
S.L.U.T =)
So get real, be real, and dont come to me unless you are or are trying to be...
I promise to call you on your shit when you are not being real, and even though you may get mad at me, and stop talking to me, Im willing for that to be a possibility if it lets you know at least one person can see through the BS and wont "just let it slide"....
And I expect the same...though you should know that even if I get mad-I will always come back around (unless I die) and then I wont. I dont stop caring just cause we stop talking...And the silence will only last as long as my pride.
That whole first part sounds a lot harsher than actual execution turns out to be, just to let you know.
And on a completely different tangent-
So heres the thing....there are so many people that I have met and that I read here on Zaadz that are going through what Im going through-HUGE life changes. Transition, if you will. Its encouraging but also surprising to know that situations can be soooooo similar. Things that are written could be about me or to me or from me. Its amazing to think that perhaps life does have a rhythm and that change does happen in larger groves than my own!
and again-to change the subject slightly-on my new name: I chose those letters for a reason, just as I chose those words. Stella Luna-two "Orbs" in opposition existing in Harmony, providing light. Under Transition-very much so, constantly under transition- and as for the acronym...SLUT-they dont exist. It means nothing. And if I can encourage that philosophy, perhaps a little less negativity will plague the world.
Anyway, thats my blurb for the day...nothing poetic, just thoughts
S.L.U.T =)
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Stella Luna Lovely!
I love the observation and tangent about how many Zaadzters are going through HUGE life changes…. I recently came to a similar observation. I have had the great good fortune (this is not to be understated) of personally experiencing & sharing comfort, conversation and company while I surf (gracefully but mostly groppingly) the waves of change. And *you*, dear SLUT, are ONE of my blessings….
~ hugs from a sister SLUT
(Stacy Loves Unfolding Times ;-)
Thank you, Miss Ray of Light! You are Dear and Beautiful. I love the pictures of you and your daughters.
How I can tell the world is changing is by the media, the way people around me speak, and contact with those on Zaadz- when I hear about positive change on the radio, when I read someone's blog and its on the verge, and I myself am on the verge….
I love that we are here, now. and Im grateful you are here too.
Namaste,
SLUT
I also agree big changes are afoot—–and I find it exciting, though there may be dark times ahead. At every “evolutionary transition” period I have ever learned of in history, the new paradigm is proceeded by a breakdown of the old. I see both a breakdown and resulting chaos, and the beginnings of a New Understanding, all happening at the same time; and it is happening on both the individual level and the collective level.
So while I agree there surely is a Universal Transition happening, I just cannot bring myself to call you by your new chosen name. Words do mean things, otherwise there could be no communication here whatsoever—–we could never agree on meaning at all if there is not some “common ground” of understanding of meaning between us. Will you get mad at me if I continue to call you Stella—–I am afraid I will never be able to address anyone in what may be perceived as a demeaning or disrespectful manner. If you consider me “old hat,” OK, I understand; but I have taken a vow to never say or do anything that may be hurtful to another on purpose; I just think there is way too much hurtful language going on today, and I wish to help usher in the New World through conscious communication. I fail at it at times, I know.
I have to say that there are many words that through out history have gone from a positive connotation to a negative connotation, as well as symbols (the Swatstika was originally the symbol for peace, Cunt used to be a sisterhood of nuns, “flipping the bird” was a sign from one country to another during war that showed that the flipper still had his middle finger and would use it to shoot arrows or pistols). This degredation of meaning, and the continued belief in the negative present association of words is imaginary and cannot become a thing of the past until we make it a thing of the past.
The Secret said something about the difference in power between positive and negative thoughts, that it takes 100 negative thoughts to have the same effect as a positive one? I think….
How can we stop the worlds idea that a woman who has had more than one partner or who has been raped is a slut or worse (women are killed for being raped), if we continue to give those words of hate negative power. No…I dont care what power such a word has, I will not bow to bullies. iF
I understand where you are coming from Moonstar, and I appreciate your sentiment, but I wont participate, nor continue to allow it power.
Much love and peace to you.
S.L.U.T~
OK, I understand. Much luck and love to you as well in all you do.